I know this dance. I've done it before. but I was on the other end. I was feeling a little less than. I was feeling the deep stares, the "what? where did your mind go just now?' I saw that distance, that "I have a lot on my mind" look, which really translates to "I have a lot I don't want to explain to you." The eyes say it. Isn't that what they say? you might be wondering, what am I wondering? why do simple things seem so complicated, small things so large.